Do we play with our children, like really PLAY!? Get down on our knees, forget we are grownups, and REALLY PLAY?
So… today I woke up and decided that I was going to rebel!
I was going to rebel against cleaning, washing, laundry and any of my “grown-up” responsibilities. It was going to be a PLAY DAY! Often we find ourselves so consumed by our parenting duties that we fall into the trap of being “invisible” to our children. Yes, routine is good, keeping up with our domestic responsibilities is important, and I try to live my life accordingly, but I also believe that sometimes we just need to rebel a little, take a “chill pill”, and play with the little ones that fill our homes with noise, joy and all things crazy and beautiful…
Let’s be honest… how often do we say, “not now”, “wait”, “give me 5 minutes”, or “I’m cleaning”, “i’m working”? And the list could go on and on! It’s not that we mean to be mean, but we are wired in a way that tends to make us think; if my house is clean, clothes are washed and food is on the table then obviously (insert happy face), we are doing OK! But are we?
So yes, I decided to kick all responsibility out the door, get on the floor and just be a kid…. And you know what… IT WAS GREAT! My kid’s loved it, I loved it, my husband ended up joining in (after work) and we had a blast!
So this is it… Nothing profound, just get down and play in a way that you have never played before… That is when we learn the most amazing, genuine and heartfelt things about our children.
Yes! Grown-up responsibilities should sometimes be put on hold…
One Messy Mama